If Facebook becomes my confessional and therapy, so be it. Following on yesterday's (or the day before) thinly veiled revelation of being hired as an "exotic dancer" in between the births of both of my daughters, firstly I'll tell you, in most cases, the generally believed theories about why women go into sex work and accurate. It's the attention. It's daddy issues. It's men issues period. When we're molested, raped, abused, used, especially by close, trusted family, we experience the horrible sensation of having no control over our own lives, no control over our own bodies, and often, no way to get away from the abuse. So how do some of us regain control over our own bodies? Using it to make men pay, literally. My need for control didn't end there. Because men's need to continue to abuse and use me didn't end. Do you know the one thing I did to myself that 100% effectively gave me absolute control and protection of my own body? I got fuc...